The Solution to End All of Your Suffering and Emotional Pain
Q: If you are right, then why do you suffer so much?
A: It is because you unknowingly live from your false self, instead of your true nature.
We are born perfect, whole, complete, experiencing oneness with all that is and only in a true spiritual sense of time; it is always NOW. In normal development, between 18 and 36 months we are conditioned by our society to consciously choose a false self to present to the world. This can be the good girl, bad boy, smart boy, cute girl. This becomes the first of many false selves we will create over our lifetime trying to fit into an insane society. We develop many false selves over our life time, rotating them through our consciousness for which false self is” on center stage” depending on the needs of the day. This can be the great student, the bad student, the star ball player, the good musician, etc. At some point in life trying to live through these false selves breaks down and we develop illness and/or begin an inner spiritual search. The anxiety is created by the effort of living an untruth. We can only live in happiness and peace when we are one with the Truth and our true identity. We will have great pain and suffering as long as we insist and demand that we are gods, and that what we can imagine in our minds is what is supposed to happen. If you haven’t seen the movies “Click” with Adam Sandler or ”Bruce Almighty” with Jim Carey, they are worth seeing. They are Hollywood’s ideas of what happens when we get what we ask for. “Be careful what you wish for,” as they say.
At the same time there is a different and parallel path taken by those with chronic health issues. Trauma forms very powerful bonds. When there is repetitive trauma prior to the age of five, and usually prior to age three, a very intense false self is created. This is the victim self. Often it is the most intense self a person knows and is usually unconscious. A known self, even if unconscious, even if painful, is always chosen over the anxiety of not knowing who is supposed to show up next. We are terrified of not knowing the answers to life’s questions before they are asked. In our insanity we believe we control the world and cause what happens next. We live in our imagination. We believe in our imagined reality, of how life “should go”. When it doesn’t go as we think it should, we feel threatened with fear, anxiety, depression, etc. What you have in your life is the result of your inner process and thinking. To have a different result, for example a huge healing, you must surrender the self you have known. If that self had the answers to your illness and suffering, you wouldn’t be reading this. The answers lie outside of your thinking mind. Your job is to wake up , watch, and don’t fall back asleep, and don’t let your false selves run the show!
At some point in life, our rotating false selves are clearly not working. We appeal to the rabble of false selves inside for a solution instead of realizing the solution is outside of our known self. When we ask who will save us, the most intense false self, the victim self volunteers to lead us out of the current anxiety. Once we choose to follow that false self, we initially feel relief, feel better, because we are now walking a known path. The problem is this false self was created with the belief that you survived by creating separation. That means you must stay separate from life, love, the Divine, your feelings, separate from this moment in time to survive. When you do this you bring forward, in time, the very self that keeps creating the separation and suffering. If this self cannot recreate you being a victim of others, then it will cause pain and suffering and you become a victim of the false self you have chosen to identify with.
The solution: Look at your pain and suffering and ask each day, “Why would a sane and conscious person recreate this pain and suffering every day? What beliefs are operating underneath this suffering self?” If I truly had the answers, I wouldn’t be suffering like this. I need to identify, eliminate the false and wrong answers, then ask the question, “Who can truly lead me now?” and wait for the answer from the Divine.
It is a basic spiritual truth, the inner world always forms and determines the outer world. I need to ask, without attachment to the answer, “What is the false self, the false beliefs in my inner world that keep bringing this form of illness and suffering into existence?”
Quantum Techniques can help you find and heal those beliefs, emotions and trauma fields that block you from your True Self. If you suspect you are being run by your false self, try a Quantum Techniques session. You will receive 30 minutes free with a $25 purchase in our store at www.quantumtechniques.com.
-Blessings from Stephen and Beth Daniel
Founders of Quantum Techniques (QT)