Hi, I’m Dr. Carolee Johnson with Quantum Techniques. One of the things that comes across my desk at Quantum Techniques is married couples who are struggling. It seems like a guy in a marriage has to have an endless supply of understanding because women have days when they don’t even know what’s the matter themselves. This hormone thing is either fire or ice, and the only thing that helps is, I don’t know, a big piece of chocolate or diamonds or something like that. But really, it’s a joint effort to consciously create a good marriage.
My husband is a saint, and he has mastered this art of endless supply of understanding, and he understands that he just doesn’t always get it. I told him that he should write a book about everything that he has learned about understanding women, and he says, “I can do that, but then every page would be blank.” So he’s kinda got that. But the truth is, he’s learned to create. When any situation arises, you can either react or you can create.
So when you get triggered in your marriage, and the automatic reaction is to get all fired up and then start shooting angry words at each other, stop. Take a few seconds and touch your heart with your fingertips, and then just breath into your heart. Okay, now, you can choose your reaction and create a positive reaction, because now you are consciously choosing to create something better and not just firing an automatic reaction. Whatever it is that’s going on can be discussed without anger. And if you consciously choose to examine that place where those angry words are coming from, then you can heal the wounds and create a much deeper and loving relationship.
And that’s where Quantum Techniques comes in. By muscle testing, I can help you find that place and bring into consciousness the beliefs of underlying trauma or experience that is driving the negative emotions and heal those things, which helps you to heal and strengthen your relationship, to forgive and let go. Life can be wonderful by choice, and if you need help finding underlying trauma and beliefs, you are welcome to start sessions with me, Dr. Carolee Johnson. For more information on finding underlying beliefs that drive your reactions, my new book, Born For a Reason, has a plan of action and exercises that you can do to help bring these things to the surface and be examined and shifted. You can purchase the book at http://www.caroleejohnson.com. Or you can go to http://www.quantumtechniques.com to sign up for a session. Thank you!